Wazzup Pilipinas!
Many would still detest, but our society has accepted them.
Prominence in showbiz as stand-up comedians then to co-hosting on TV shows and movies mostly to provide comic reliefs.
The usual visibility at parlors or salons as hairdressers or make-up artists leveling up to fashion designers, directors, and other creative industries.
Then penetrated beauty pageants normally for real women.
Now even government offices.
Maybe more in the near future.
However, this acceptance should still have limits since overbearing demands for equal treatment same to that of real female by births would never totally happen.
Maraming kokontra dito....for sure. But let me get personal. Maybe too personal. But necessary so you would understand where I am coming from.
During my younger days, akala ko nga bakla ako kasi palagi akong tinutukso ng mga kaklase ko dahil ang dami ko raw friends na girls sa mga kaklase namin. Mas gusto ko kasing kaibigan yung mga girls kaysa yung mga maiingay na boys. At lagi namang friendly smiles ang mga girls sa akin.
Pero those tendencies were changed kasi natuto ako na boys should behave like boys....and maraming girls kasi na nagsabing type nila ako...hahaha... everywhete I go, may nagkakagusto raw sa akin. During JS Prom pa nga may lumapit para makipagsayaw. Lol.
Seriously, may instances pa nga na nilalapitan ako ng mga bading para yayaing kumain, manood ng sine, etc., sa mga malls kapag namimili ako ng comic books and magazines na hilig at collection ko noon.
One time yung supervisor namin sa isang sikat na fastfood resto na pinag working student ko tried to molest me. Ikinuskos ba naman etits niya sa hita ko at parang asong nag doggie style doon.
Another instance, nanood ako ng sine mag-isa sa Robinsons Galleria, tapos may lumapit na bading sa tabing upuan ko at hinaplos ang hita ko sabay yaya sa akin na pumunta daw kami ng CR. Lintek, di ko na tinapos ang palabas at umalis na ko ng sinehan. Sinundan ba naman ako ng walanghiya. Eh high school pa lang ako, kaya di ko pa naisip na isumbong sa guards. Nagpanic lang talaga ako at nagmadaling sumakay pauwi!
Medyo traumatic sa akin yung mga last experiences ko with gay persons but I've moved on na rin naman. Saka di na kasi ako tumangkad after high school kaya di na pogi ...hahaha...kaya wala ng lumalapit. Hehehe
Overall, ok na ang tingin ko sa mga third sex. Kahit one time may bad encounter naman sa isang lesbian with his girlfriend na umuupa sa isang room ng house ng mama ko. Pinagbintangan ba naman ako na gusto kong sulutin syota niya habang naglalaba sa banyo. Pinatungan ba naman kasi ng batya yung inidoro eh gusto ko ng mag-CR. Natural bubuhatin paalis yung batya para magamit ang toilet bowl.
I guess kaya hindi magiging satisfied at truly masaya ang mga LGBTs dahil walang magiging total acceotance sa kanila dahil di run united at as one ang mga ugali nila. May simpleng umasta, may sobrang maingay at aggressive, may tunay na bagay ang ganda, may alaganin sa itsura para magmukhang tunay na babae.
Mahirap talaga magpakatotoo kung ayaw mo tanggapin ang binigay sa iyong itsura at gender. Instead of accepting our weakness and capitalizing on.our strengths, iniiba natin kaya lalong gumugulo buhay.
All Gender restrooms can now be used, but still one at a time, by any gender, whether Male, Female, or LGBTQIA+WXYZ ... and all colors of the rainbow ROYGBIV.
We accept that we live with people with diverse inclinations and personalities, but please do not intrude too much on our comfort zones.
There should always be a limit to everything, and since we have been brought up following the norms and standards, we can't possibly have all coz the supposedly request against anti-discrimination then becomes a demand for special treatment.
We'll give you a place to do your stuff, but also allow us to be ourselves.
If LGBTs were not able to accept themselves when they were born with their genders and features, how could they make everyone else unconditionally accept them?
Please do not drown your real identities regardless of sex change operations. We all know in mind that men will be men, and women will be women in the eyes of the Lord.
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